I grew up in Germany. Patriotism is a very ambivalent issue here because honestly, if you are proud to be a german it is often just equalled to being a Neonazi. Honouring our soldiers on memorial day would mean honouring soldiers that commited crimes against humanity and were fighting for a country that was guillty for causing 2 world wars. Honouring our flag falls into that same category. So when we have a memorial day we do not honour our fallen soldiers but mourn rather those whose death we were responsible for and all victims of all wars. Nationalism in Germany seemed to be forever associated with the Nazi-regime.
But then the FIFA worldcup came in 2006 and all that changed, it was like a fresh breath of air. I don't think anybody can understand what it felt like for the first time to wear our national colours and to feel good about it. The pictures speak for themselves, really, it was an ocean of black red gold everywhere. Now patriotism is associated with sports, but hey, that is progress right?
Now the german military is engaged in northern Afghanistan, but Germany is not really willing to send its troops into actively fighting the Taleban in the south. They view their mission as a peacekeeping mission, not a war fighting mission (it is schizophrenic, but considering the history of war fighting for germans maybe the reluctance is understandable). German military fighting in a war - no no no that is a baad bad bad thing in the minds of the majority. They don't want it, they are not used to the fact that finally we are shaking off that stigma of only being capable of horrible deeds. They actually really like feeling bad about themselvses for everything.
Our allies, the Americans, would pretty please like Germany to carry more weight in Afghanistan, not just reconaissance Tornado aircrafts and Nato AWACS, but to participate in fighting off the Taleban. I am really curious how long we can pretend that we shouldn't do this.